Why I'd Never Want to Be the Protagonist of Any Cringy Rom-Com

When it comes to movies, despite my love for a wide range of genres, one category stands out as a complete no-go: cringey rom-coms. These films have a way of leaving me feeling uncomfortable and uneasy, and I find myself questioning why that is. This article explores why I'd never want to be the protagonist of any such movie, and what makes these rom-coms so… cringe-worthy.

Why I Can’t Stand Romantic Films

.My aversion to romantic films stems from a combination of personal preferences and rather inexplicable discomfort. While I thoroughly enjoy other genres like action, horror, and thrillers, when it comes to romantic comedies, I find myself squirming in my seat. The unrealistic romances depicted on screen often feel inauthentic, and the clichéd dialogue and situations can be undeniably cringeworthy. I can’t help but wonder why these movies seem so far removed from the reality I experience in my daily life.

One of the main reasons I dislike romantic films is the utter predictability of their plots. There’s a clear formula that many rom-coms follow, which includes the classic "boy-meets-girl, boy-loses-girl, boy-gains-girl-back" structure. This predictability not only takes away the excitement and surprise, but it also tends to leave me feeling let down. The frustration from knowing exactly what will happen next can be quite irritating, especially when the execution is subpar.

The Allure of Non-Romantic Genres

The fact is, I’m drawn to genre films that offer something beyond the romantic ideal. For example, I find thrillers and action films much more engaging because they present a more exciting and unpredictable narrative. The adrenaline rush and suspense in these genres hold my attention far better than the typical rom-com plot lines. I also appreciate the depth and complexity that these genres often provide, which is often missing in rom-coms. Imagine, for instance, the thrill of a high-stakes action movie where every decision matters, or the psychological thrill of a mind-bending thriller. These genres keep me on the edge of my seat, making for a far more satisfying viewing experience.

My Personal Experience - If I Were Rainman

While I may have a plethora of reasons to avoid cringey rom-coms, there’s one potential scenario that wouldn’t make me cringe: being a protagonist in the renowned film "Rainman." In "Rainman," the lead character leads an orderly and structured life, which contrasts sharply with the chaos and unpredictability that often permeate my own life. Unexpected random events and the unpredictability of being a parent to an autistic son certainly make my days exciting, but they do so in a way that's uniquely fulfilling rather than cringeworthy.

The character of Raymond Babbitt in "Rainman" is a mirror of sorts for the world I live in. I may be a parent to an autistic son, and I've grown to embrace the unique world we inhabit. The fictional portrayal of autism in "Rainman" is inspiring in its nuanced portrayal, and in some ways, brings to light the joy and challenges of our lives.

Moreover, the relationship between Charlie Babbitt and his brother Ray Babbitt, as displayed in "Rainman," is a perfect example of the unspoken bond between siblings. The love and support they share, despite their differences, can be a window into the complexities of human relationships. While Charlie has a wife, it's the relationship with his brother that drives the emotional core of the movie, reminding us of the importance of familial bonds and unconditional love.

Conclusion

While I may have a strong aversion to cringey rom-coms, the unpredictability and depth found in other genres and films resonate more with me. The beauty of cinema lies in its ability to mirror the complexities of human life, and while rom-coms may sometimes fall short in this regard, films like "Rainman" offer a unique glimpse into a world where chaos and order coexist in a meaningful way. This blend of unpredictability and emotional depth is something I can truly appreciate, making "Rainman" a far preferable choice for any protagonist, no matter how tumultuous the journey may be.