Understanding 'Molly Mormon' and Its Implications in the LDS Community

The term 'Molly Mormon' is a pejorative expression that has gained a foothold within the LDS (Latter-day Saint) community, particularly among younger members. It is used as a derogatory term for an LDS female who is, or perceives herself to be, more righteous than others. This label is often applied by peers and can be a reflection of complex social dynamics within the faith community.

The Usage of 'Molly Mormon' Among Young LDS Members

Young members of the LDS community are more likely to employ this term when expressing their dissatisfaction or disapproval of other members. This candor contrasts sharply with the more formal and polite conduct often seen among adults. Adults in the community are typically more cautious, understanding that a single indiscretion could result in members' disengagement from the church.

For young members, their participation in the LDS community is often driven by their parents' beliefs, rather than personal convictions. Some are happily involved, while others may be there out of a sense of obligation or even social pressure. However, the term 'Molly Mormon' is not a one-size-fits-all description. It can be as varied as the nuances of interpersonal relationships within any group of people.

Cultural Dynamics within the LDS Community

Within the LDS community, as with any other group, there are inherent differences in personality and social standing. Some members are more popular than others, some are well-liked by everyone, while others may be more critical or reserved. There is a range of behaviors that reflect a variety of personal values and beliefs, some aligning with strict adherence to religious principles, while others may challenge these rules.

For instance, 'Molly Mormon' can refer to a young woman who adheres strictly to the church’s dietary and sexual restrictions and does not engage in any activities that might be seen as ungodly, such as drinking, smoking, or using recreational drugs. Similarly, a 'Peter Priesthood' male might be someone who is overly authoritative in encouraging others to conform to the church's practices and who may lack his own distinct personality, resembling more a follower or a robot than an individual with a unique identity.

Psychological Factors and Societal Pressures

The term 'Molly Mormon' is not limited to a single situation but is a label that can be applied to anyone perceived as too zealous, too strict, or too controlling of their peers. It often emanates from a place of frustration or skepticism within the community. People who are more rebellious or skeptical about their faith might label more strict members as 'Molly Mormons'

The use of terms like 'Molly Mormon' reflects the layered nature of the LDS faith. It is more than just a set of religious principles but also a rich culture encompassing friendship, social norms, and social identities. The dynamics within the LDS community are multifaceted, shaped by individual personalities, social hierarchies, and broader cultural influences.

As an example, I recall my experiences serving an LDS mission in Utah, a state where a significant portion of the population is LDS. In some communities, the majority of residents are part of this faith. During my time there as a missionary and later as a student at BYU, I observed a wide range of behaviors and attitudes among the younger members. Some were deeply religious and devout, while others showed a more skeptical or rebellious attitude towards the church's doctrines and practices.

Conclusion

The term 'Molly Mormon' is a complex and multifaceted social construct within the LDS community. It reflects the diversity of beliefs, behaviors, and identities among younger members and the interactions within the broader cultural context of the LDS faith. Understanding this term requires recognizing the cultural dynamics, psychological factors, and social pressures that influence the behavior and attitudes of individuals within the LDS community.