Pride in Our Parents: Uncomfortable Teachings and Lifelong Achievements

Today we delve into a deeply personal essay, sharing the reasons we are proud of our parents. These stories not only highlight the struggles and triumphs but also reflect the enduring strength and spirit of the individuals they are—through their unwavering faith, their personal growth, and their contributions to society.

My Mother: A Walking Lesson in Faith and Resilience

Hi Angelo, I am proud of my mom. Her unwavering dedication to her faith, her ability to remain steadfast through adversity, and her compassionate nature have been the cornerstone of my upbringing. My mother is a woman of deep faith, always worshiping with the Lord every day. Unlike me, who sometimes mocks her devotion, she finds comfort in her walks through the sun, wind, and rain to pray.

She begins her day with prayers, pouring out her heart to the Lord, trusting in His guidance and protection. For all my teasing, I now understand the profound impact her prayers have on her life and on mine. My mother had a tough start in life, not accepted by her in-laws due to financial and religious challenges. Despite these hurdles, she cherished the chance to join her in-laws' faith and beliefs.

This devotion and perseverance moved me to tears, prompting days of reflection and gratitude for her resilience. She never stopped evolving, transforming from a stay-at-home mom into a self-motivated scholar and student of life. Her journey from humble beginnings to a well-read, expressive individual through her Bat Mitzvah at 60 and her experience coaching B'nai Mitzvah students speaks volumes about her determination and growth.

My Father: A Policing Hero in Medellín’s Most Dangerous Times

My father's courage and service have been another significant source of pride for me. Back in the 1980s, he was a policeman in Medellín, Colombia, a city infamous for violence and danger. During this era, Medellín was one of the world's most perilous cities, with drug lord Pablo Escobar offering rewards of about 700,000 pesos for the death of police officers. This city was so dangerous that several of my father's colleagues met their demise while he was in service.

His life was full of narrow escapes. He witnessed over 50 of his coworkers lose their lives during his tenure. There were reports of numerous bomb attacks across the country. On one occasion, a suspicious vehicle was parked near the police office, and my father was part of the specialized team to handle bomb threats. When they arrived, the owner of the car fled quickly, eluding capture. The bravery and dedication my father displayed in a city at the brink of tragedy are beyond words.

Despite the risks, my father contributed significantly to building a safer, better place. His story is a testament to the power of service and the resilience of the human spirit. He always prioritized the safety and well-being of his community, even in dire circumstances.

Lifelong Achievements and Unwavering Support

Both my parents were not only sources of pride for their convictions and resilience but also for their unyielding support and care they provided to us and to others in need. My mother was incredibly caring, and people naturally gravitated towards her when they needed to talk and had problems. She possessed a unique ability to provide compassionate aid and advice. Her kindness and empathy were unparalleled, and I often wished my own daughter could have the same qualities.

My father, on the other hand, was steadfast in his commitment to his community, especially during some of the most turbulent times in Medellín's history. His unwavering dedication to his duties as a policeman and his role in building a safer city are exemplary. He offered support and protection to those who needed it, reflecting his strong sense of duty and his commitment to justice and safety.

In conclusion, my parents' actions and their unwavering spirit are a testament to the strength and resilience of the human spirit. They have taught me invaluable lessons in faith, perseverance, and the importance of family, which I strive to honor and emulate in my life.