Introduction to K-pop Fan Criticism: BTS vs EXO

The world of K-pop is filled with passionate fans, but tensions can arise when groups are constantly pitted against each other. A frequent point of contention is the treatment of EXO by some BTS fans. This article aims to explore the reasons behind this phenomenon, offering an in-depth analysis based on real experiences and observations.

Personal Experience with K-pop: A Journey into Therapy

Two years ago, K-pop became a possible form of therapy for me. My doctor recommended discovering new things to find new purpose, and K-pop, being easily accessible, caught my attention. My niece and nephew’s enthusiasm for EXO set the stage for my exploration. At this time, I became a sponge, absorbing as much information as possible. EXO was one of the most popular groups, and despite my initial reluctance due to the nature of “boy bands,” their music intrigued me.

Observing Fandoms: An Exposition of Attitudes

My journey led me to compare EXO with BTS, which I was also discovering at the same time. A high school friend, a massive EXO-L, played a pivotal role in shaping my understanding. However, her response to my observation about EXO’s focus on shallow themes rather than social relevance was striking.

“We Don’t Need You Anyway”

My friend’s dismissive attitude towards my opinion was a turning point. She said, “It’s okay. We don’t need you anyway. You’re not an EXO-L, so your opinion doesn’t matter.” This reaction, coupled with the delusional and possessive nature of EXO-Ls, made me pay closer attention to the attitudes of various K-pop fandoms.

EXO-Ls and the Concept of Possession

Many EXO-Ls view their idols as possessions, likening them to romantic partners tied to a chair. This delusion is evident in their actions, such as protesting against a member getting married or joining a boycott against MNET award shows. These behaviors paint a picture of a fandom lost in fantasy, rather than grounded in reality.

ARMY and the Comparison: Observations and Insights

While ARMYs also have their share of obsessive fans, they differ from EXO-Ls in their behavior. Most ARMYs are misguided and immature but can be corrected with guidance. Their attitude is more aligned with a genuine interest in the group, rather than a delusional possessiveness.

Conclusion: Addressing the Shady Side of Fandom

The tension between BTS and EXO is complex and multifaceted. While some EXO-Ls exhibit an unhealthy obsession, ARMYs tend to be more grounded in reality. It is crucial for both fandoms to address and correct these negative behaviors to maintain a healthy relationship within the K-pop community. Only through understanding can we foster a more harmonious environment and mutual respect among fans.